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How to ask my best friend if she wants to be in a QPR?


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My best friend and I have recently been taking our friendship to new heights. Since we live far apart from each other, we have a sleepover every month and text all the time. We are both aromantic. We love to cuddle together and get really close (completely platonically) and when we're with each other we do absolutely everything together. We always tell each other how we'll always be best besties. Although its a long way off, we are planning to move in with each other during the summers in our college years (who knows how it'll actually work out, if not that then after college).

Anyway, I need some advice. I love her so much (again, platonically) and I feel like being in a QPR with her would further cement our friendship and make us happy. I only worry about her thinking I'm trying to get closer to her for romantic reasons (a non-worry really, but still something to think about) and just her being uncomfortable with the idea in general. Is there really anything that separates a QPR from being best friends?

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I'd say commitment is what separates a QPR from being besties.  If you are planning to move in with each other, that's pretty committed.

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