Idk if I’m lesbian or bi

[Guest 4beepers]

I’ve been dating a man for 2 years and I’m so scared bc recently I’ve been worrying ab my sexuality again. Ive been identifying as bisexual for about 3ish years. Before i dated my bf i was thinking about if i was bisexual or lesbian but we were like best friends and i knew he really liked me and idk if i liked him as a friend or romantically i was just so confused but i just went for it. I’ve been thinking about it like A LOT recently and I’m so scared because i care for him so much and don’t want to lose him😭 help me please 

[Guest ili]

Hii

Sexuality is fluid by nature, I've never been in your position but I believe communication is key. It sounds cliche but I don't have anything else to recommend. But you're absolutely not alone, that's for sure, I know Paulina APC (chilian visual artist) divorced her husband after becoming a lesbian (I didn't follow the whole story but they're still very good friends and there's no hard feelings).

[ABC]

Idk whether you’d even check here again but just my 2 cents:
 

1. Are you TURNED ON by/ATTRACTED to men IN GENERAL? Yes/No/Idk

2. Are you TURNED ON by/ATTRACTED to women IN GENERAL? Yes/No/Idk

3. Are you TURNED ON by/ATTRACTED to enbys IN GENERAL? Yes/No/Idk

(by turned on/attracted I mean whether you feel sexually/romantically attracted)

If you answer Yes to any 2 of these questions, you’re bi.

If you (as a woman) only answer Yes to the question about being turned on to women, you’re lesbian.

For everyone else, the combinations of your answers to these 3 questions will figure out what you are.

Such as answering Yes to all of them = pan, No to all of them = ace or aro, and if your answer to anything is idk = it’s ok to be confused.

 

Edited Wednesday at 02:14 PM by ABC