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Ok so I def have an opinion on the character of Henry Creel from Stranger Things 4.  I love him as a character.  I think he is kind of queercoded, because in the show he looks very obviously effeminate.  And it's almost canon that he is an aromantic asexual (he says in his monologue that he is a solitary creature).  Just what we need, right?  Another aroace villain.  However, I kinda feel he's not all bad.  I think he cares about Eleven, and shows that in the scenes he has with her (except in that last scene where he is trying to kill her).  Obviously he is evil as Lord Vecna, and his younger self is evil.  But I sort of feel he might have a good side.  Am I crazy for thinking this?

Either way, I really appreciate the direction Stranger Things is going in as a show.  I like that they are making their villains a bit more complex than just mere monsters.  I also think Vecna could easily symbolize depression, or alternately lack of forgiveness.

What are your thoughts?

That's what they said.

You could be!  The question is, do you feel romantic attraction?

I want to visit Durango, Colorado again.  I had my first psychotic episode there (bipolar) and I would love to go back.

I sing alto in choir, when I am in choir

Maybe see a therapist?  I have muted emotions, but I still have them.

I personally would rather you just say grey.

Maybe 7cups or some other form of online therapy would help?

A friend introduced me to this song.

Also a wise point.

Hey!  Welcome!

Hey!  Welcome!

I have recently come to realize that even if I never have another partner of any kind (romantic, platonic, alterous, etc) I would still probably be ok and happy in my life.  Does this make me loveless?  I don't think it makes me aplatonic, I still get squishes.

I don't talk about them that way.  I just sort of think about them that way.  You do have a fair point, though.

I don't worry about getting left behind by friends so much, but I can't really articulate why.

I do have a very strong passion for writing and music, so to a degree I get swallowed up in those and don't worry about anything else so much.

Good idea

I'm offended that you assume I am Christian

I am offended by the fact that there are two colors in your avatar.

I am offended that you have exactly 60 posts.  Don't you know 6 is an evil number, with 666 and all?

I have become really curious about solo poly as of late.  I have also become curious about relationship anarchy.  I am an avid reader of KIMCHI CUDDLES, which is a webcomic about polyamory, so I think that is where I heard those terms.  I guess I basically consider my friends to be my significant others, but I don't know how to tell them that or whether it would be appropriate to do so or even if it is appropriate to think of my friends that way at all.  I don't want to make anything weird.  But I am excited to find a label that MIGHT describe how I am feeling.  I would rather label myself than my relationships.

What would you do if you were me?

I suggest you find a DBSA (Depression and Bipolar Support Alliance) meeting, a lot of them are meeting on Zoom these days.

hey!

If you want closeness and intimacy that isn't romantic...have you heard of QPRs?

ehy!  I mean...hey!

It sounds like something related to fictoromantic.