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    Hi! I am confused but like to be here

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    On 10/16/2024 at 11:35 PM, Merrie said:

    I think I might be on the aromantic spectrum, but I still can't work my way around it. Like, all my life I have loved romance, the fiction of it. But the little "experience" I have in romance, has been... Akward. 

    Like part of me doesn't get how I can be reading and be like "KISS KISS KISS""THEY ARE SO CUTE TOGETHER" "They deserve each other!" but in real life feeling like a relationship is suffocating me. 

    As a kid I was like "why have a boyfriend now? As kid I can't do the stuff I see on TV, we can't go to real dates!" And I had crushes before. But now as an "adult" I don't get it! What does real people do between those "romantic moments"? Idk, for me romance is like a super duper friendship, or at least it should be? And I can't even bare the thought of getting in a relationship with someone I wasn't friends previously, is weird as hell, ans I don't get why people do that. 

     

    Idk, I'm just here to try and figure out stuff, I like this community, at least the concept of how romance isn't really that important as media make it look like, I learned it here, so yeah, whoever read this hope you have a nice day.

    hi! i’m the exact same way

    and for me it has to be a friendship on steroids, like they know everything about me (including stuff like my many illnesses and therianthropy)

    i don’t get how someone can have a crush on someone they don’t even know. like, how do you know you like them if you don’t know anything about them??

    and most of the time, by the time i actually start developing a crush on someone, they just think of me as a friend 

    anyways, sorry for ranting, have a nice day :)

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