Zozz

50 minutes ago, That_Gurl_Sparklez said:

YUMMMMM! As long as it isn't just boring black coffee- I hate how bitter it is then ;-;

Red velvet cake?

YUMMM 100000%

shawarma?

20 hours ago, Guest Anonymous said:

I identify as arorace, but I enjoy wearing lingerie and listening to love songs. I have had intense squishes in the past, and currently, I have this one friend of mine who does not identify as Aro ace, but I do like the physical affection I get from them; I enjoy the proximity we share and most of the time, I am the one who is initiating it, we do not kiss and other things but we get cozy, hold hands and stuff like that I think they might have a bit of crush on me, what should I do? I am pretty sure I am aroace. I have been proudly wearing that label for four years now. But sometimes, I feel like an imposter. 

this is perfectly normal

also lingerie is literally just comfortable undergarments, not exclusively a allo thing

i visit like once a day lol

think of it as an aroace, or someone on the aroace spectrum, who has an orientation

for example, an aroace person who is also pan

or, like me, a demisexual and aromantic who is omisexual !

Im greysexual if that counts?

id love to have kids in the future, but adopted

i would get married !! yeah!!

On 9/4/2024 at 9:54 AM, kira- said:

no. i don’t see any point in marriage because all it adds is expectations that i wouldn’t fulfill. plus the only reasons i would get married outside of tax benefits could be fulfilled by just having a roommate. plus the fact that a marriage is inherently seen as a sexual and romantic relationship, so there really is no upside to it that i can see from my point of view. 

i will most likely end up living by myself with an between 1 and 4 cats, and maybe a roommate to help fulfill the responsibilities of a residence, talk philosophically, and play video games.

this is why i think the concept of PACS in france is really cool. its not marriage but it gives some benefits that marriage has

On 10/4/2024 at 11:09 AM, squinkiy said:

ive read one place that theres smth called dysmorphia. dont quote me on it, if someone else has better info please dont hesitate to extend on it

dysmorphia is not necessarily a gender thing. anyone can have it 

On 7/12/2024 at 8:58 PM, TheSpaceArrow said:

Not all of us are super sad and angsty about not being in a relationship. It's important to show aros who embrace their identity and are not just upset at seeing all their friends pair off (*cough* Isaac *cough*).

And aro characters also need to have their own stories that aren't just existing as a side piece to other characters who are in relationships. Don't just make them aloof and standoffish. Even if it doesn't revolve around their identity, make them a strong character. We still have friendships and hobbies and passions. Maybe their identity doesn't even bother them much. 

Heartstopper was a good start at accurately portraying Isaac's aroace identity, but he was so insignificant that only one side of him was shown. Basically, unless they're like a background character, give them a complex personality the way you would with any other character.

issac's aroaceness is gonna be shown more in season 3!!! at least thats what i think from what i saw of the first few minutes of epsode one

On 3/16/2021 at 3:59 PM, Rolo said:

Clearly? How so? He has several romantic relationships and is in love with Rachel for a while, I wouldn't call that "clearly on the aromantic spectrum". 

hi. im aromantic but in a romantic relationship. we exist :^)

also that relationship with rachel was NOT it lmao

help zozz thought this was a polytheism thing

On 11/8/2021 at 5:58 AM, Angrboda said:

I know this is an odd question &, just to be clear, I'm not asking if I'm gay or straight. I've heard all sorts of words to describe the feeling of attraction to a certain sex or certain gender identity, but I have no idea what it's called if you're only attracted to people who's body is one way & who's gender identity is another. I'm attracted to bio males who are either nonbinary or more on the feminine side. Does anyone know if there's a word for that?

youre saying you only like amab people who are enby or FIN

Just now, Zozz said:

youre saying you only like amab people who are enby or FIN

like neptunic but only trans people

true!!

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